My husband and I don't argue a lot, but when we do, it's a doozy. Today, we didn't even have a fight. He was already in a bad mood and took something I said the wrong way. Then, we got home and I shut a door in the house too hard I guess and he told me he had enough and was done being married to me. Later he did apologize and blame it on his bad day, but really? I mean, REALLY? After nine years of marriage it was out of the blue and I was in shock.
It did get me thinking, though, about my independence. Not that I want to be divorced, but if something did happen and he was no longer in my life, what would I do? I don't have a job. I don't even have a vehicle because the only vehicle we have is in his name. (We bought it from his parents and his mom only signed his name to it.) Now, that could be remedied, we just have never really thought about it. What's mine is his and what is his is mine. It's never been a question in my head until now. What would I do? Maybe it was another wake up call that I need to better myself.
So, I call it a Setback because it made me depressed and I didn't even want to do this. But, I am bettering myself, right?